On a date and don’t feel safe? Ask for Angela

Valentine's Day is just around the corner and we know people will be going on first dates and meeting up for the first time.

Meeting someone new can be exciting, but it's also normal to feel a little nervous. The most important thing is that you feel safe. No one should ever feel pressured, uncomfortable, or unsafe on a date or night out.

That's why we've been working with local bars and clubs to implement and promote the Ask for Angela campaign.

We want to make sure that licensed venues are safe spaces for everyone. Our efforts have focused on training for staff, bartenders, managers and security guards. We're equipping them with the knowledge and skills to respond effectively and discreetly when someone asks for Angela.

We've also been distributing posters for Ask for Angela so they can be displayed in places like toilets and behind the bar. The idea is to make sure everyone knows this option is available if they start to feel vulnerable or unsafe at any point during their night.

If you're on a date and things aren't going well, or something feels off, go to the bar and ask for ‘Angela’. It's a discreet way to let the staff know you need help. They'll then be able to assist you, whether it's by separating you from your date and moving you to a place of safety, calling a taxi, or alerting security if necessary.

It's also a good idea to let someone you trust know what your plans are. Just a quick message to a friend or family member telling them where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to be back can be really helpful. There are also some handy location sharing apps you could use if you'd feel more comfortable, so someone can keep an eye on where you are.

Before you head out, make sure your phone is fully charged, just in case you need it. And while you're out, it's always best to keep an eye on your drink. Make sure you see it being poured or opened so you can relax and enjoy your date knowing you're safe.

For more information on Ask for Angela and staying safe on nights out, visit our crime prevention page here: Safer Nights Out | West Midlands Police